It needs patience to get back with an ex
It is definitely hard to get over someone when you have just broke up, well that's what most people suggest you to do when you break up with someone. But I always keep in mind that there may be hope to get back with an ex, considering you still love them of course. But also if you think about it, it was not really love if they left you and don't want to get back with you.
I was chatting with a friend on yahoo messenger today about how I had a fight with my boyfriend (we are together for 4 years) and we are almost at the point of breaking up. It definitely is not easy for me to deal with this situation since I also have to think about my job. In fact this is what is the root cause of the fight... my job and not being able to give him enough of my time.
Talking with someone about all this made me feel so good and relieved considering the fact that she has also been in an almost similar situation in the past and she never lost hope of getting back her man. I was telling her how it is hard to even talk to my boyfriend since I know it is all my fault if all this happened. That's when she stared her experience with me and it felt so real, I mean it's like I am living the same situation but the thing is she has already gone through it and was lucky to get her ex boyfriend back.
One of the first thing she suggested me to do was to apologize, but that is something I had already done and it has not been helping much since my boyfriend is still angry with me. She has also been doing things that made her boyfriend remember their happy times together and this I have not tried yet but I think this is one of those thing to try to bring back happy memories.
After the chat with her I felt more confident to try to win my love back. It surely will not be easy but I will at least try.
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